Relationship expert Em Clarkson gave advice to the partner of a man who constantly tells colleagues about his intimate life. Letter from a woman and response from a specialist published Metro edition.
The woman complained that her boyfriend admitted to her that he knew everything about the sex life of his colleagues and shared with them the details of his own. “The next morning we made love, and he said: ‘Colleagues will know about this before the end of tomorrow’s work day.’ But he never asked my permission to talk about it. I love him and value our relationship, but I don’t like him doing this,” she said. The author of the letter added that he does not tell her the stories of his colleagues.
According to Clarkson, a woman has every right to set personal boundaries. “Tell him that you love him and feel comfortable and safe with him, but this behavior undermines your trust and makes you feel bad. Ask him to stop sharing all the details of his intimate life. If he doesn’t respect these boundaries, then he doesn’t respect you,” the coach explained.
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Earlier, relationship coach Jane O’Gorman gave categorical advice to a girl who complained of bad sex due to her lover’s strange behavior in bed. The reader said that she was embarrassed by the young man’s habit of speaking in the voices of cartoon characters during sex.
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