It is generally thought that things can be solved by talking. If there is a harmful environment in the interaction, talking can make the situation worse, says Psychotherapist Paula Hietanen.
In disputes, people usually focus on thinking about what the other person could do better in the future. This way of thinking should be consciously changed.
Raisa Mattila
11:00 | Updated 12:04 p.m
HS reader write:
“My wife is so stubborn that I can’t stand to argue anymore. There are only two ways out of a conflict with him: an ongoing dispute or yielding to his will. Even if something bothers me, I don’t have the motivation to talk about it, because all I get to hear is that I’m wrong. The same applies to emotions. My partner doesn’t think they’re right or right either. What help?”
#Human #relationships #wife #stubborn #fight #anymore #expert #tells #talking #worsens #marital #dispute
