The applications to find a partner are already several years old. In fact, since before the internet was born there were already people looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend in the newspaper classifieds. There were even “singles groups” to meet people and arrange dates to possibly find “the better half.” But now, we are in the times of apps and Tinder has tricks to be successful when looking for a partner.
The use of this type of application has become popular and there are different apps with different names, but also focused on different tastes. Nevertheless, Tinder is very popular and millions of men and women are looking for a partner on this platform. Although the rules seem to be clear when using the app, there are aspects that can help you to be successful in it.
How does Tinder work?
Very easy, you must download the application to your cell phonecreate a profile in which you must give information such as:
- Place where you live
- your age (actual)
- Sexual identity / Gender
- sexual preferences
Once inside the application, you will start to see profiles of registered people and you will do the following:
- Swipe (slid) to the right if you like the person
- Swipe to the left to dismiss it and see another profile
- If a person to whom you swipe right as a sign that you like, corresponds to you, it is a “match”.
- This means that they can now start “chatting” with each other.
One of Tinder’s biggest sources of income – in addition to the platform’s advertising – is the payment of certain services that some users pay to have “premium” accounts that show them more to girls / or boys, thus increasing their chances of success in finding a partner.
Tricks for men when looking for a partner on Tinder:
If you have wondered why you have been on Tinder for a long time and cannot find a person who is interested in you, you may have negative feelings, even affecting your self-esteem. This is an effect that these types of applications can have.
However, the problem of your lack of success on Tinder could be not so much because of yourself, but because of the way in which you “sell” yourself to the women with whom you seek to make a connection and invite on a date. Perhaps, your “failure” can be solved if you follow the recommendations for single men on Tinder:
1. Choose a correct photo:
Do not use a selfie, with the cell phone in hand and taken in the bathroom mirror at home. Better put one about an interesting trip or at a party with friends. If you are a sociable person, let it be seen on your profile. This way you can attract girls who also like that lifestyle. In the case of women it is “advisable” not to look at the camera, in the case of men, it is the opposite. Look at the camera and don’t wear dark glasses! Consider hiring a professional photographer.
2. Describe yourself lovingly:
Chances are that in an app where a lot of people lie or tell “half-truths,” you might be more successful at being truthful. It is not about giving too many personal details that could put you at risk. Simply, give real, relevant data so that, when they meet you, there is no “shock” between your profile and the person in real life. Talk about your hobbies and interests without fear to attract like-minded people. If you can put a little humor, much better.
3. Try to spark conversation:
When making the first contact, look for the person you are talking to to be interested in talking to you, but without being the typical one who sends a thousand messages or a “bible” that probably nobody is interested in. Go easy, if the talk flows and the girl also asks questions or takes initiative, then go deeper (read her bio). Remember that it is very likely that you are one of several guys she is talking to, so, go with cove and don’t be desperate. In fact, if you’re desperate, you should stay away from Tinder.
4. Remember that you have a value:
To be successful in love as in almost any other area of life, you need to have self-esteem and be a confident person. Although it sounds easy, it is not. If you have problems of this type, they could be aggravated by rejections on Tinder. there is even studies have already detected a lower level of self-esteem in men who use Tinder compared to those who don’t.
That said, as you will see, there is no “recipe” but there are some guidelines between people who achieve a certain level of success on Tinder and those who fail. If you take some of the previous recommendations, surely you will have a higher chance of success, because the previous mistakes are common and “scare” women. The worst of all would be lying about who you really are.
Finally, something very important with Tinder and other dating apps is know when it’s time to gouninstall the application and at least rest from it. It’s not about “throwing in the towel”, but about taking a break. Invest that time you will stop using Tinder in improving yourself as a person and putting yourself first. Healthy eating, rest, exercise, spending time with friends, taking a course that improves you as a professional, all of this will help you. When you feel better and more confident, return to the load.
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