Raise one or more children It is a task full of responsibility and difficulties for parents. From the moment they are born until they become independent young people, their care, their education, their safety and endless aspects depend on these two adult figures.
The stage in which the child is a baby It is one of those that requires the most time and attention from its mother and father, since it must be fed every so often, take care of its hygiene, monitor that its health is going well, interpret its cries to know if it is sleepy or in any discomfort, and a long etcetera.
When they reach a certain age, it is also common for many parents to decide enroll your child in daycare or nursery school because they need to leave the child with someone. Taking the minor to the doctor when they have to undergo a check-up, vaccination or because they get sick is another obligation.
The union of these last two actions described has been the cause of controversy on social networks after a mother told, through Threads, What happened to her when she took her 11-month-old daughter Freya to the pediatrician. As he explains, the little girl “is taking all the vitus there is and to be had at school” and, when she went to the doctor, the doctor decided that she should take the girl to the nursery with her age.
«My daughter’s pediatrician It has made me feel like a very bad mother.» the woman began, whose username on the social network is @quierete_decorart. “She has made comments such as that she is too young to go (11 months), that the immunization thing is a lie, that she took her eldest when she was 3 years old because she paid someone…”, she explains in the publication. Thus, she explained that she could not do anything else since where they live I couldn’t leave the girl with anyone because you have to work.
The mother has also expressed: «I wonder,how do I do all that at the same time that an education is intended to be 100% present, without screens, with play and free movement, without hammocks, full dedication? I just think it’s impossible, let’s go…”
Wave of support and understanding
Faced with this situation, there have been other users of the social network linked to Instagram who have wanted to show their support for the mother and tell similar scenarios that they have had to experience with their children. These have been some of the answers:
«A couple of days ago a woman implied that I am a bad mother for taking my children to school from 9 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. (3 years and 1.5) because from 2:30 p.m. to 4:15 p.m. I go to the gym and that instead That should take them up to half a day. Working families have to make do as best we can. If in your case you need the girl to go to school, it is not bad. He’s going to catch the viruses now and older, it doesn’t matter. The thing about getting immunized is true. I recommend that you change your pediatrician because he doesn’t even know how to be a person…”
«Tell your pediatrician to take care of the girl’s health, that you are in charge of parenting. Come on, let him mind his own business.”
«Then people are going to criticize you for whatever, no one knows your reality and your day to day life better, no one knows how much you take care of your baby, only yourself and if your pediatrician, instead of giving you peace of mind and containment (like mine did ) judges you then look for another one with an updated and respectful look towards you and your baby. I hug you, one day at a time you are doing well️»
«A pediatrician recently told me that I was a permissive mother, that day in the consultation my daughter was very restless, I tried everything to keep her calm, and the pediatrician only knew how to scream, be careful, I’m catching something, but feel her, look. “If he catches something, the responsibility falls on me, but it’s horrible and there he tells me, you look very noble, you’re a very permissive mother, I almost even told him that he was going to die.”
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