He sexual desire It doesn’t work alone. It is not the result of chance. The search for moments of intimacy, trust and complicity decisively influence that sexual relations are satisfactory for the couple. But also the creativity And the mutual effort to look for the greatest number of situations that foster the gamethe experimentation and the darealways from the agreement and the consensus.
It may be that, with the passage of time and the increase in responsibilities and concerns, the couple falls into the trap to assume that certain samples of desire have to end yes or yes in a sexual relationship with penetration. But the truth is that, as explained by the Sexologist from Víria Lucía Jiménez Sacristánerotic and sexuality go far beyond co -centrism and so that experiences are gratifocating, both must know their body, the body of the other and discover where and how to activate the springs of pleasure.
That is why both the sexologist of Districts as the sexuality expert and co -founder of Inty EssentialsAdnane Kabaj, invite some of the techniques and practices focused on a more conscious sexuality. Terms such as ‘shallowing’, ‘angling’, ‘pairing’, ‘rocking’, ‘humping’ or ‘layering’ can be a priori exotic, but the truth is that they are more frequent than what is created and describe eroticism that contribute to see it in a healthier and more balanced way.
These are some of the emerging trends in erotic stimulation that we describe with the help of both sexuality experts to help them integrate them into intimacy naturally and safely.
‘Shallowing’ for full consciousness
The ‘shallowing’, which in English means “making it shallow”, consists in prioritizing stimulation in the outermost part of the vagina, near the entrance, instead of looking for deep penetrations. «By maintaining the very superficial penetration, the sensitivity of the clitoro-urtro-vaginal complex (CUV area), which concentrates a large number of nerve endings, ”explains Inty Essentials expert, Adnane Kabaj. It should also Soft and conscious stimuli. “Many people discover that” shallowing ‘allows them to extend the encounter, raise the excite greater control over orgasmavoiding arriving immediately to areas such as the cervix that can be sensitive or painful, ”says Kabaj
On this practice, the sexologist Lucía Jiménez states that, if at any time there is a problem to maintain the erection of the penis can be placed the basis to help the blood circulation concentrate in the area and increase sensitivity.
Another possibility, as Kabaj adds, is to use the Sexual comfort rings (Silicone rings stackable placed at the base of the penis or toy) that act as a stop to avoid too deep penetration so that the couple can move with tranquility and safety to focus on the most pleasant superficial sensations, something useful for those who suffer pain with the deep penetration.
‘Rocking’, contact intensity
With the ‘rocking’ it would be done just the opposite that what is raised in the ‘shallowing’, because in this case we look for a very deep penetration in which the vulva enters into contact with the base of the penis and the pubis of it. “Instead of making movements inside and outside, we keep the contact, being able to move the hips in circles,” explains the sexologist of a disturbance.
Humbing: The art of self -stimulation in balancing
The ‘humping’ technique consists in carrying out a masturbation in which the pelvis against a surface is rhythmically rubbed (for example, a pillow or mattress). This sway imitates the Movements of sex as a couple and involves everyone body In pleasure, making the excitement rise and fall in waves, “describes the inty essentials expert. Every time the hip advances increases the pressure In the clitoris and, when backward, the sensation is softened slightly, prolonging the excitation phase. Many people enjoy ‘humping’ because it allows them to naturally regulate the intensity and reach powerful (even multiple) orgasms thanks to that cyclical accumulation of sensations. It is a more organic form of self -stimulation, almost like a dance, which tune in with the rhythm of each body. In fact, it is not uncommon to initiate in this method instinctively in adolescence (rozing with bed or cushions), and in adult life it is equally valid and pleasant.
‘Angling’: Postural work
The practice of ‘Angling’, as described by the sexologist of Viversual, consists of modular the position of the pelvis once the penis or an erotic toy is inside. The goal is to find the Perfect angle in which the vagina receives penetration, obtaining the maximum internal and external rubbing, so that the clitoris can also massage the movement.
‘Pairing’, simultaneous stimulation
This practice can be especially useful, according to the sexologist Lucía Jiménez, for women who assure that they are not easy to reach orgasm only with penetration. It is quite frequent, especially if we take into account that the main way in which these people have orgasms during their masturbation is given through the Clitoris stimulation. The ‘pairing’ therefore consists of massaging the vulva and the clitoris, with the hand or with toys at the same time that penetration is practiced.
‘Layering’: add stimulus layers
The ‘layering’ proposes to superimpose different erotic stimuli to enhance enjoyment. Instead of focusing on a single area or technique, layers of sensation Progressive or simultaneously, Kabaj describes. An example can be carefully slowly while using a Natural stimulating concentrate In the clitoris, and then rhythmically contract pelvic muscles to the compass: here external tactile stimulus, heat effect and internal sensations are combined.
As a couple, also the ‘layering’ opens a range of possibilities. Kisses with petting Manuals or oral, using toys during penetration, or involving other senses (such as sensual music, oil massages or alternating heat and cold sensations on the skin). This sensation cocktail usually translates into more intense orgasms, because the brain receives Multiple pleasure sources both. The key is to try combinations gradually and see which ones better turn on the passion of each person.
Erotic audios
Guided masturbation through Erotic podcasts It consists of getting carried away by a voice that describes fantasies and gives indications to stimulate. This form of intimate game combines the Mental stimulation With physics: the narrative awakens the erotic imagination while the person follows the tactile instructions, as a sexual meditation. “Many people find that, when closing their eyes and listening to a suggestive audio, they connect more with their sensations and discover a different, more leisurely and deep pleasure, without depending on visual stimuli,” proposes the expert of Inty Essentials.
Fiorentina technique
The so -called Coito ‘A La Fiorentina’, which raises the sexologist of a disturbance, can be carried out to increase sensations in the penis. What is done is that before introducing it, the skin of the frenulum is taken and lowered by sighting the glans. It is something that is not possible to perform in circumcised penises, according to the expert. To understand the difference, it should be noted that naturally when the penis is introduced into the vagina, the glans is exposed, but in this case it is about introducing it directly so to further accentuate its exposure.
‘Edging’: Control the excitation
The edging (of “edge”, edge) refers to bringing the excitement to the orgasm threshold and stopping it just before, repeatedly, before finally the climax is allowed. In practice, it means approaching orgasm again and again, but voluntarily stop several times. «Those who practice it enjoy the feeling of control over their sexual energy and discover that orgasm, after postponing it, becomes much more intense. In addition, it serves as training: some men use it to learn to delay ejaculation, and many women manage to chain multiple orgasms playing with that sube-y-base of sensations, ”says Kabaj.
In edging, abundant lubrication is fundamental. By prolonging stimulation for a longer time, friction is minimizing using a good aqueous base lubricant generously, reapparing it when necessary. A useful trick is to add a few drops of neutral oil (for example, from jojoba) to the lubricant to obtain a more silky and lasting texture. Of course, you have to remember that oils are not compatible with latex condoms.
Current trends in sexual stimulation reflect a change of approach: quick orgasm is stopped looking for attention to pay attention to the quality of the process, creativity and mind-body connection. Techniques such as ‘shallowing’ or ‘edging’ invite to stop the rhythm and taste each sensation; Practices such as ‘layering’ or guided masturbation encourage all senses and imagination to involve. Together they all underline the importance of knowing oneself and, if necessary, to communicate to the couple what you want.
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