There is always a chasm between reality and fiction. The distance between what each person can imagine in the solitude of the four walls of their room and what that same person later decides to do in their real life is longer than it may seem at first glance. And if not, ask heterosexual women, understanding the term as the romantic and sexual attraction between people of different sexes, who openly acknowledge feeling arousal when they consume porn where two women have sex.
What happens is explained from sexology, says the teacher in Sexological School, Norma Ageitos Urain, which states: “We have become accustomed to thinking that fantasies are those things that we want to do in reality, but no. From the study of sexuality, fantasy itself is valued, what our imagination takes us to, but this does not mean that it has to be the planning of a desire.” This fantasy can be something that is satisfactory for the person for various reasons, but “it does not necessarily have to come to reality,” explains Ageitos, and gives an example: “We can take it to other areas of cinema. We may really like watching movies, but that doesn’t mean we want to experience what we see: we just like it because of how it makes us feel.”
The reasons why a heterosexual woman may like lesbian porn more are several, according to experts. The first is that female-only porn is focused on female pleasure. “It is more sensual, it has more eroticism, many more wet kisses without rushing, a lot of clitoral stimulation, touches, caresses.” Ageitos clarifies that it is important to understand that “imagination or movies can be different from reality, and this does not determine sexual orientation.”
“It’s just more of a way to stimulate imagination, excitement and pleasure,” says the author of the book How to Provoke Female Pleasure, Claudia Carvalho. Additionally, she explains that a survey conducted by the website Pornhub shows that videos of women having sex with other women are favorites among women themselves.
Ageito emphasizes that another reason why this type of content can produce this stimulus is that “we link sweetness, closeness and slowness in sexual relations to an imaginary that has traditionally been more associated with women than with men.” ”.
A scientific study of the University of Essex showed that a heterosexual woman is just as excited by the image of an attractive, naked and suggestive man as a woman in the same conditions. They reached this conclusion after analyzing the reactions of 345 women to whom they showed erotic, female and male videos. In both cases, heterosexual women responded by dilating their pupils, sufficient proof for the researchers that they were equally aroused. The study also showed that homosexual women only had their pupils dilate with female images.
For Cecilia Bizzotto, sociologist and spokesperson for JOYClub in Spain, It’s very simple. “Women are more likely to like lesbian porn because their sexual concordance, that is, the correlation between the brain and the genitals, is lower than that of men due to the sexual education they have received.”
Psychologist and sexologist Ana Adán, who is co-director of Tu Yo Psicoluciones, agrees with this and explains that women need fewer genitals and more history. “Lesbian porn, being less aggressive and less focused on the genitals, can make women associate it more with pleasure. Women are more excited by the context, and not so much by the protagonist of the story. The erotic atmosphere makes us feel pleasure and desire.”
And she clarifies that a woman who has fantasies about another woman does not have to rethink her sexuality. “This conception has changed over time and has become obsolete. “Women do not define ourselves through what excites us, it does not conflict with our orientation.”
In the book My secret garden: sexual fantasies of women A compilation of the fantasies of more than 150 women is made through letters, tapes and personal interviews where many of them said that they fantasized about being with another woman, but this was not something they wanted in their life. “Our fantasies are created from the society in which we live and the stimuli to which we are exposed,” says Adan and concludes: “It is a myth that what you fantasize is what you want to bring to reality.”
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