Over there a friend told me that, Demonstrating that you like/interest someone does not always come through a declarative speech, Sometimes there are assertive gestures – although I consider that this is only a preliminary, the declarative must always be an effort that sustains the structures that were organically generated.
Good, we must consider that the gestures are gradual, because if you start pursuing someone and this person feels uncomfortable but loves you as a friend, well, things can get difficult. First of all, I recommend that, when you see that the friendship on your side begins to turn in the other direction, you comment on it; So even if the person is indifferent, you can get out of the situation without much pain, right? At a bad pace, hurry up.
Well, it depends on your personality, of course. Now, let's see: How to seduce an otaku in ten days? Will it be possible? Will he agree to leave on the 14th if you start approaching him from February 4th? Who knows! Take risks.
Valentine's Day: How to seduce an otaku in ten days?
Day one: TALK TO HIM
Step number one: start interaction with your otaku. If you are serious and find it difficult to start a conversation, I recommend that you use emojis and stickers, so that it shows that you enjoy talking to the other person. Ask questions, but not invasive. Talk a little about yourself, and let the other person ask what they are interested in knowing more specifically. Don't fall into excesses and pay attention to what they tell you. There is nothing more precious than listening carefully to what people share with us.
Day two: Bathe, cough, cough
Amix, take a bath hahaha, very clear, but every day and well. We will all thank you, really. Change, and after that, you can use the epic phrase:
“Welcome home, do you want dinner? A bath?” or to me?”.
All for using that phrase, don't you think? The laughter will not be lacking; Someone else told me that the purest love comes from laughter without shame, and another person told me that it is reflected from silence without fog. I think that both are two sides of the same coin, when a bond of real trust is established, none of those things will make you uncomfortable. Although, of course, it is not something that is built overnight, okay?
Day three: An avant-garde anime – laughter and mysteries –
Marathon a cool classic anime. Obviously not monsters like One Piece –I say this because of the number of chapters–; choose something more relaxed but basicIt depends on their tastes, this will work, it will surely give them an idea to talk about and recommend other series and mangas, this way you will be able to recognize the framework of their inclinations, this is something very important in the long run.
My recommendation would be something dynamic that has everything, or something fun, even detective, that doesn't have much to do with romance or action. I mention this because the romance could give rise to comments that are a little out of place for this moment – like oh yeah, you and me; and the action ones sometimes have, in themselves, things that are difficult to process – sexualizations, you know, things could get rough.
Although if we go all out, it would be perfect for them to see something nice that allows them to better recognize their anime and manga tastes even further. The biggest highlight would be watching a Studio Ghibli movie –Ponyo, Whispers of the Heart, Tramp Castle– or from CoMix Wave Films –Kimi No Nawa, Suzume no Tojimari–. The animation is beautiful, the dialogues are simply perfect and the sound transports you to another world, doesn't it? Although you know, it is swimming in the waters of destiny.
Day Four: Sweets for an otaku!
Japanese sweets as a flirty detail. If there is something we really like, it is Japanese edibles, so some pocky, a gummy, a solid candy, a small steamed bun, a cookie and even an instant ramen will make your otaku feel that they are cared for and valued by you.
They say love can also come from the stomach! What do you think?
Day five: Obviously, a sweet shojo!
Suggest watching a shojo with your otakuso you will see what levels of tenderness, corniness and romance he handles, maybe you will stop liking him because you are not very compatible.
Romance in shojo is highly idealizedHowever, there are chaotic things and other very cute things that you can discover through them. This way you will learn the general ideas of romance and be able to better discern what you would like and be able to do, and what you wouldn't.
Always question this type of deliveries, but also appreciate the beauty in them, simply Don't fall into believing everything one hundred percent. Goes?
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Day six: Respect their tastes and show confidence
Gift a dakimakura of your waifu or husbando in order. Clear! Imagine, at first you show how much you care about respecting their decisions and also show support.
Waifus and husbandos are usually very important to otaku, so there is no better thing than materializing them! Plus, now the weird dakimakura will remind him of you too, wink wink.
Day seven: Play, something else to do
Of course, Watching anime is what we otaku do, but a new activity doesn't go amiss: play! It depends on what kind of people they are but Pokémon Go and Genshin Impact that run on cell phones and are free are good options, and then they get married in a FF, right?
Day eight: Let's play it safe: make him laugh with a wink to his humorous ideal!
Dress up your waifu or husbando in a sneaky way! Not one hundred percent, but enough winks for him to recognize you. It will give you a lot of laughs, that's for sure!
In addition, you will extend that bridge that you are willing to share warm and humorous moments.
Day Nine: Some official merch!
This is a big step, here we talk about more intense things because we know that official merchandise is more expensive and difficult to obtain, it requires much more planning and attention to detail, but That same journey makes the gesture even more sympathetic.
Obviously, don't order him the mega figure of his waifu or husbando, something small will do.
Day ten!: Handmade chocolate! Handmade chocolate!
Of course, it couldn't be missed! You have to bring your handmade chocolate. IT'S A MUST! And a small flower will give all the possible light.
We know that This is a much more direct gesture, it is enough to see a shojo to be clear, after that, everything depends on the connection they have created, but perhaps ten days of intense seduction will be enough to make the otaku romance emerge and seal it with this moment. Ayno, you already made me nervous, cheer up!
February 14: And you already know how to seduce an otaku?
Obviously I don't have the perfect seduction formula, haha, it shows, right? Remember that the fact that someone is an otaku is only a part of that person, so try to really get to know the person you are interested in and you will know which gestures they are comfortable with and which ones they are not, that is something really important.
In other words, try to meet the real person! Things will germinate as they should; Just don't get into trouble with exes – people who are confused or still grieving – and also stay clear at all times.
Remember that, obviously, no one is obligated to feel the same amount of affection, nor in the same way that we do, but, Will you have the initiative or the openness? Maybe not, and he only sees you as friendship and that is also respectable.
Take some action and stay clear for your own good, okay? Although that doesn't mean you can intensify, okay? Cheer up! What will you do this February 14?
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