Top 5: Mother’s Day, May 10: Bad Anime Mothers

Today we have to celebrate our mothers, and that is why we wanted to remember the most outstanding mothers of the anime, but for the most difficult reasons to digest. Although they definitely do not fall into the class of appreciable mothers, we wanted to give a fresh air to her interpretation so that you value your mother more and understand her. Although, remember she, understanding is not justifying, but it is important because it will help you socialize with your mother in a healthier way.

To begin we would like to say that Moms are more than that, and from that perspective their strict role should have a more flexible opening. The situations they go through and the baggage of their own upbringing will always undermine the new parenting relationships they generate. Also, first of all, Your mom is a woman with structure, sweat, needs and desires.

We chose “the worst moms” in anime, but we want to provide a more human perspective, instead of just labeling them as bad mothers. Also, bad mothers according to who, you?

Meet the worst mothers in anime…

Ai Hoshino—Oshi no Ko

Ai is a teenage mother who received a lot of help, but he tried hard from the beginning. Is she a “bad mother” for not knowing how to recognize her children or are they going to “forgive” her for her sweet idol appearance?

Ai does not need anyone’s approval in her parenting style, and although the time she spent with her children was very little, the girl managed to keep her dreams and her job to support her children. Even though at first she didn’t remember her face and therefore she wasn’t able to make the association with the names Aquamarine and Ruby.

Towards the end of the special chapter of Oshi no Ko, Ai is capable of more than just saying that she loves her children, she manages to genuinely feel it. This was her biggest fear, not being able to love, in the end she achieves it and it is a personal relief.

Ai is a special kind of mom who doesn’t remember her children. She is also a teenager who has many things to juggle, but her desire to have a family leads her to give birth to our protagonists.

Hiling, the stepmother — Osama Ranking

Hiling breaks the archetype of the fearsome stepmother and although at first it is scary and it seems that she wants Daida to be king out of mere selfishness, as the story progresses we realize that While he did not make the best decisions for Bojji’s future, he did so out of genuine concern for his stepson.

It is true that He underestimated Bojji’s abilities and because of this he overprotected him and in turn, because of this, he made him feel very bad. However, mothers are not perfect, they should not be, you cannot impose on them to understand you absolutely. Like all humans, they have different things to think about, so they will try to empathize as much as they can and it probably won’t be how you expect or need it.

Remember that mothers are conditioned by many things that we do not see.

Rosa Ushiromiya — Umineko no Naku Koro ni

Rosa explodes with violence, her neurotic attacks become very cruel.. We do not intend to justify them, or even explain them. Sometimes it’s easy to say, “If women are going to be this cruel to their children, they should choose not to have them.” However, it is much easier said than done.

For centuries, society has imposed the duties of humanity in general, one of them is that we must have offspring and be extremely productive. Women especially have the task of giving birth, it was imposed almost as a divine and naturally forced obligation. And, we know that historically, girls whose husbands held high positions had even more pressure to be mothers to ensure offspring and the implications of this.

Although Rosa is one of the most explosive mothers in anime, perhaps we could recognize that her motherhood places a lot of weight on her. And furthermore, her “decision” to be a mother was interfered with, she was almost cornered.

It is difficult to be in total care of a human being with whom you have conflict. It is definitely not the babies’ fault, but in certain situations, some mothers will not be able to remain sweet because they will fight with a thousand other feelings.

From our context, Mothers suffer and survive their motherhoods that usually limit them to their role. However, we must understand that women should not be mothers before womenbefore lovers, before friends.

We dream of a world in which motherhood does not limit us, nor even exclude our own emotions, and that is why We expose these “bad mothers” who we would rather like to recognize as human mothers.

Saki Arima — Shigatsu no Lion

Rei partially understands her mother, she knows that on some level, the harm she did to her was not really conscious. The lady was in a situation of deep stress and sadness. And in turn he sinned by over-demanding his son’s performance, partly because he believed he could give more, partly because he needed him to do so. There are mothers who think that their children have an irrational capacity.

It is more or less common for parents to try to make their children achieve what they could not, to achieve their dreams. However, Just because it’s common doesn’t make it acceptable. even though the Arima situation has a tragic tone.

Rei was very good at playing the piano, and his mother was even more spectacular. However, after being limited by his physical condition, Rei’s mother finds a kind of comfort in him continuing on his path.

Saki Arima is a mother who endured a lot of pain and frustration and tried to stay afloat, Of course, he didn’t achieve it in the best way. However, in these situations, without lying to yourself, how would you act? The truth is that we will never know.

However, where Rei’s mother’s pain comes from, love is also recognized.

Isabella – The Promised Neverland

Just because you want to die so much does not mean that others do too, there are people who want to live and there are others who, at the very least, fear death.

Isabella tries to survive in her own wayand although she is in charge of a farm of children whose flesh will be devoured by demons, the truth is that she only It is one more link in the system from which, alone, I would not have the slightest possibility of escaping.

Although the delivery of the children seems quite sinister, the truth is that she could do nothing else, only strive in her own way, to be a “model mother” in the time she spent with the children, it should be noted that it is an issue that achieves .

Isabella is required to have maternal devotion before being able to choose her own life. That is why she is called evil, which in itself is cruel. She is a mother, yes, but she is also an ordinary person who wants to live.

Isabella was forced to be Ray’s mother, however, towards the end, her own villainous persona takes a turn and reaffirms her with the mothering potential that everyone expected of her. In the beginning, Isabella wasn’t one of the bad mothers, she was just one who was afraid, can you really blame her for not being a revolutionary in a world full of demons?

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So are they bad mothers?

We present to you the “bad mothers” of anime. We hope you remember that Mothers are more than love and tenderness for their children. Mothers are women with fears, doubts, regrets, obligations and a thousand sufferings like all of us and the fact of mothering does not resolve these issues for them. but rather accentuates them.

We do not justify any type of violence from parents towards their children, however, sometimes Moms have situations that overcome them and they simply react. Another thing is that we must remember that mothers are more than that and as the stellar mother mentions in “Something that shines like the sea” novel by the Japanese writer, Hiromi Kawakami:

““Am I the most important thing in the world?” I insisted.
“Yes, of course,” she admitted.
—From what world?
—There is only one world.
—How many worlds do you have?
“Three and a half,” he answered, after a brief hesitation.
—And in how many of those worlds am I the most important thing to you?
—I guess almost three out of three and a half.” (2003, Kawakami)

What other “bad” mother do you know? Tell us to put it in our next top. We hope you can be kinder by understanding your mother’s way of mothering. We are not asking you to stop hurting, but perhaps analyzing it could provide relief to a certain degree.

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