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What do you do if your ex suddenly charges you for the roses, perfumes and car rides he paid for you after the relationship ends?
Have you already been through a breakup and still remember exactly how it happened? After all, there are many different ways in which you can break up with your ex.
For example, some people only realize how afterwards toxic the experiences in the relationship actually were and are happy that this nightmare is over. It is particularly unpleasant when a partnership breaks up because of this one of them has been cheated on and now has to find a way to deal with it.
But of course there are just as healthy relationships that still fail. We are also happy to help in such cases Measures you can take to avoid your ex or your ex for the time being. After all, you first have to come to terms with your own feelings and see what needs to be clarified after the separation.
Do you have a common circle of friends and what’s next? Does someone have to move out of the shared apartment? Do you perhaps still have some of his or her clothes or an old games console? Everything is completely normal!
What TikToker nisaaa66_ but now about the demands from her ex in one Slideshow told, goes completely beyond this normal framework. On April 27, she posted the following slide show about her experience, which began like this:
So an invoice from the ex. Did she perhaps still owe him money that she had borrowed? Were there any utility or furniture bills she couldn’t pay yet?
Wrong thought! Because the second picture in the TikTok shows us nisaaa66_what her ex actually wants from her:
Yes, you read that correctly. The picture shows an invoice with all the amounts from the relationship, which lasted about a year and a half (at least if you go by the car trip amount that he calculated for her from August 2020 to March 2022). This should nisaaa66_pay, which she herself wrote in her TikTok: He was so nice and left out a lot of things as a gesture of goodwill 🙂
Other highlights besides the car journey amount are of course the Gas station roses in almost every argument for around 100 euros and the Dior perfume for 49.95 euros. Finally, we must not overlook the exact cent amounts.
Not surprisingly, users on TikTok had a lot to say about this slideshow, which received over 1.8 million views. Some – although very few – thought that it would be understandable to demand money from their ex, at least for the expensive gifts.
But most of the comments looked more like this:
The majority of people agreed that a gift is a gift and that you shouldn’t ask for anything back even after the relationship ends. Especially not in the form of a bill that amounts to almost 1000 euros.
In addition to the shock of the car rides and the gas station roses, there was also another wild realization: This whole story is not an isolated case! The comments were full of similar stories.
A woman with the username feli2604 For example, she said that her ex had charged her, among other things, for Capri Sonne.
user kathalikeyou245 reported about her ex who wanted 1,300 euros from her and still wouldn’t leave her and her family alone even after the payment.
Actually, the whole thing is not only shocking, but also really sad. Because what many people noticed: Why did the ex have the exact amounts in his head? Or had he even listed them beforehand?
Did he add an additional amount after every purchase, every trip and every gift in his Notes app while the two were still together? Who does something like that? And most importantly: how do you answer that?
In a comment from zeynxoxo was the only appropriate answer to be found.
There will probably be a bill like this at the latest Moment when you realize the relationship is over. And if you feel like you are at this point yourself, these sentences that can indicate the end of a relationship may help you.
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