The INCELS They have always existed but now, thanks to the ‘adolescence’ miniseries – all a phenomenon in Netflix – many people name this behavior. Without spoilers, it is an issue that is in this production, which instead of focusing on solving a murder seeks to find out the reasons.
In that inquiry of the script, a term that has gained prominence in recent years and whose Google searches have increased considerably: INCELSa movement between men that was born in 1997 in Canada, specifically in a chat or forum -there were no social networks as now, which we had Instagram, Facebook, Bluesky …-, and the Spanish translation is ‘is’involuntary cells‘. What does it mean? Lara Ferreiro, an expert psychologist in relationships and author of ‘Not one more cocoon! He indicates that they are people who do not have sex or relationships with women because they cannot, that is, “they would like to have sex and a relationship with a woman but they reject them and feel great hatred towards them for this reason.”
Who are the Incels
According to the description of the expert, who lately tries to expose to this community so that he knows how to identify these “aggressors”, the movement is plagued by complex men who encourage the misogynya strong hatred and resentment towards women: «They blame them for their situation of involuntary celibacy: They come violent and usually mistreat women ».
This group, which has physical encounters although mainly They communicate by forumsThey mistreat women on social networks initially. As the psychologist warns, young people can be a potential population to be future psychological, even physical, adult abusers: the younger they find this community, the more manipulable they are.
«It is very dangerous. It is a germ that is born in his head and that if he does not stop in time they will be psychological aggressors Against women. Let’s say it is a sect of abusers that have even a pyramidal structure where there are leaders, ”warns the author of ‘addicted to a asshole’.
80/20 rule
As we said, you have to be careful with this group. Lara Ferreiro indicates that to better understand his personality, we must know that «they are cowards Because individually they do not dare to do anything, but they camouflage themselves in the face of the anonymity of social networks to mistreat women ». This is possible with greater deployment thanks to the possibility of creating ‘nicknames’, a name or pseudonym that no one knows you, and through the forums they continue to encourage hate. «It has gone from individual sexual abuser to herd, which is increasing at great speed. That is, it is increasingly acting in a group because the group gives a feeling of impunity of “nothing will happen to you,” he warns.
In addition, they don’t have social skills And they tend to social isolation, they often consume substances. They are looking for that external extreme validation in others, they have very fragile self -esteem, it camouflages themselves in front of the group, they are emotional dependents of women, but since they cannot have them, they mistreat them and sometimes they also have even the body dysmorphia that look fat, ugly …
«They feel victims of women because they refuse to have sexual and romantic relations with them and are supported by the 80/20 rule which means, according to them, that 20% of men are handsome and desired by their status and are in which 80% of women are set, so they have no reach to that 80% of women, ”he explains.
This shows that they are men with very low self -esteem, a very low self -concept, a high level of neuroticism (person who reacts too intensely), anxiety, depression, feel rejected by society and with dichotomous thought.
«For me it is important that this issue is talk about because I think you have to educate men and women about psychological gender violence. One in five young people considers that there is no gender violence and, in general, 70% of women have gone through a toxic relationship, ”says the psychologist.
In this sense, social networks have a great load of prominence: «For me social networks is a garbage sterus, vomiting of frustrated and bad people. I think it would not have to access the networks and the mobile until 18 years because the personality is formed from that age to 24 years, then they are gross of information ».
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