Usko Siskoa | How do you tell another that you smell far too intense?

Dear ones friends, this time we go straight to the questions.

This is how it came to mind when already planning the spring festive seasons, (although for some reason it is now celebrated in a smaller setting), where did the glazing of the glasses in connection with raising the cups originate?

– Every now and then

Skooling was the way the Vikings celebrated victory over the enemy. Word skål comes from the Swedish language and means a bowl or skull. The Vikings poured their sim into the dried skull of the enemy and then struck them against each other. That cheers just!

Beer tops have been raised in the air as a sign of victory and celebration for centuries. In the Middle Ages, lifting a cup always had to be a duty.

Today, for example, in Finland, glass is often only lifted into the air and eye contact is more important than squeaking.

There are also differences between countries: Where we have to look each other in the eye, in Japan we have to pour out on others and not on ourselves. In China, on the other hand, the person who raised the glass to the highest is interpreted as the host of the evening.

I have been watching my wife’s activities from the side. Her other name happens to be Sister. The wife enjoys greenery and is quite adept at it. Now, in the dark season, he tends to put on the fluorescent tubes in the living room right from the morning. And as soon as he goes to work, I’m immediately turning off the lights because I don’t think the plants would in any way benefit from the light from the ordinary fluorescent tubes on the windows. I know there are plant bulbs on sale separately, and I think plants might benefit from a bright light bulb. Would Siskok be made to believe that the lights were blinking unnecessarily.

– Green plants

Now you have to go along the line – because green plants also benefit from fluorescent lamps. Light is a lifeline for plants. They need light energy to connect, but they don’t want enough radiation in such dark times. Even lifting on a windowsill does not always save the plant, as there may not be enough light outside for wild plants. However, the warmth of the home will help. And then those bulbs.

Any lamp is invalid. For example, light bulbs are not helpful. In addition, they become hot and can therefore pose a fire safety risk. A fluorescent lamp whose light resembles daylight can be beneficial to the plant.

However, the best help is a plant lamp for plants. The most useful auxiliary light is one whose wavelengths are reddish-yellow and blue. Such light helps the plant to connect, increase in length, and strengthen the stem. The rough division is that purple light promotes growth, red is suitable for flowering and blue for seedlings.

In the mornings, you don’t immediately feel like staying in the bright, room-illuminating fluorescent light, so if you want to wipe the sleeping sand in peace from your eyes, buy your wife a mercury lamp as a gift, which should be a particularly effective aid in depressing the plant!

I have a sensitivity to scent. It has come with age. I used to use perfumes and perfumed products, but now I smell their scent and my nasal mucosa starts to itch, sting and bleed. In addition, vomiting and dizziness. I try to avoid odors, but it’s not always possible, for example at work. I try not to say it, but if I ever bring it up carefully, usually the person gets hurt. I don’t understand, it’s not his traits, it’s the scent he uses. People don’t get angry if they are allergic to pollen or animals, for example. So give me some good advice on how to tell about your sensitivity to scent. I don’t want to offend anyone.

– Mari

Could you give up the assumption that people get hurt? Or even if they get hurt, what then? If you have to tell about your suffering, then you have to tell.

The message to the fragrance user is, of course, negative. We really can’t do anything about it. In a way, pointing out the smell means that the person smells unpleasant. Evolutionarily bad odor has signaled danger. In our culture, it is offensive to think of someone as bad-smelling. That is why we use strong perfumes.

The personality associated with choosing your own fragrance makes the situation embarrassing. You’re right that it’s not a person’s trait, but with emotion, these are experienced. The social situation is coming so fast that the logic is not easy to intervene: he is not criticizing or blaming me now, but is hypersensitive to this product.

That hypersensitivity can also be something that provokes another. Today we are more sensitive than before, and it may be that people have been overdosed on the sensitivity of others. Yes, today we have to take into account everyone’s special needs! Before that, it was just tolerated and not complained!

It is worth justifying the matter in rational arguments and medical terms. Talk about allergies and don’t belittle the symptoms. They are the right things, it is not about preference but about health. When you are still additionally stressed friendly, the recipient will understand the cough.