Noemi Bocchi, Francesco Totti and Ilary Blasi
Totti’s truth: “I didn’t betray first, with Noemi since after New Year’s”
Francesco Totti breaks the silence and in an interview with Corriere della Sera tells his version of the crisis between him and Ilary Blasi. “I wasn’t the first to betray. Then I’ll be silent again. Whatever will be replied to me, I’ll be silent. Because my priority is to protect my children.” And he explains: “The real crisis exploded between March and April last year. But I had been suffering for some time. “ The former footballer says that “it all started in 2016. My penultimate year as a footballer. Quitting isn’t easy. It’s a bit like dying”.
After having also left Rome “I was fragile, I lacked references, and Ilary did not understand the importance of this pain. Then came October 12, 2021 “when Totti’s father died of Covid. “My dad was always there for me – he says – he never missed a trip. He never paid me a compliment, but with the others he was very proud: Francesco is number one, he said. Then I took Covid too, in shape violent: 25 days locked up at home, I was about to end up in hospital. In short, it was a terrible time for me. Luckily there were children. Finally I was able to spend more time with Cristian, Chanel and Isabel. My wife, on the other hand, when I needed her more, she wasn’t there. In the spring of 2021 we went into crisis definitively. The last year has been tough. There was no more dialogue, there was no longer anything “.
Totti and Noemi Bocchi had known each other for some time: “I attended her as a friend, with my padel friends. Our story began after the New Year. And it consolidated in March 2022. I repeat: I was not the first to betray “. In September of last year” the rumors began to reach me: look that Ilary has someone else. Indeed, more than one “, says the former football player, who confesses to having spied on his wife’s cell phone:” I had never done it in twenty years, nor had she ever done it with me. But when I got warnings from different people, whom I trust, I got suspicious. I looked at her cell phone. And I saw that there was a third person, who acted as an intermediary between Ilary and another “.
The third person was “Alessia, Ilary’s hairdresser, her friend”, while the other “is a totally different person from me, who belongs to a world very far from mine, and fortunately. It was a shock. Not only that Ilary had someone else; but that he might be interested in such a man. Yet he had it. “” I kept everything inside-says Totti-I didn’t tell anyone, not even Vito Scala, the friend who has been by my side since I was eleven. I am not one who turns a blind eye, but I preferred to ignore it. I sent down, not to break the family, to protect the kids. I suffered like a dog. She said to me: this year I stay a little longer in Milan, I go back to Rome less, and I thought: I believe it, you have this other. But I still hoped it wasn’t true. “
The relationship with Noemi began “after the New Year”, when “it became a story”. As for the attempts to remedy the crisis, “we tried a little – he says – but not completely. Nobody wanted to try anything more. Let’s say it wasn’t a great attempt. I knew what she had done, even if I didn’t say anything so as not to damage her image, especially while she was doing the Island of the Famous. And she probably got bored. Because in reality the marriage was over. “
The couple then announced the breakup with two separate releases: “I would have preferred a press release only – observes Totti – signed by both of them, to say that we had tried to overcome the difficulties but we had not succeeded. Ilary refused: because she went on TV to deny, to ensure that everything was fine; and she couldn’t take it back. So she wrote her statement about her, to argue that she had done something to save the relationship, and I didn’t. ”
Totti clarifies that he had sought “an agreement. I didn’t want to go to court. So I proposed: we think first of the children, we leave the house to them, and we take turns, we make three days for each one. I didn’t want to see the guys with the suitcase in their hand, between Eur and North Rome. But Ilary said no. So I proposed to divide the house, after all it is large. Or get one all for yourself. Nothing to do: only she wants to stay in the house, and that’s it. Then we didn’t speak anymore, because she left with her sister for Tanzania. A vacation paid for by me “.
And he adds: “She went with her father to empty the safety deposit boxes, and took away my watch collection“among which” some Rolex of great value. He claims I gave them to him; but if they are men’s watches. I refuse to think it’s a question of money. If anything, it is a spite. “And he concludes:” I fear that with Ilary he will end up in court. I still hope that we can find an agreement and end this story here. For sure, now I am silent. I don’t know if it’s understood, but this afternoon it cost me six months to live. I would have preferred a thousand times to give you an interview to talk about football and Roma, which I always carry in my heart. ”
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