It was in the 60s and 70s when, as my parents tell me, that fear of screens began, specifically that of television, which also began to be known as “The silly box.”
Half a century later we no longer pay attention to the series we see with our partner for reviewing the mobile at all silence. We sit in the subway without crossing a word, but we do not lose a single of the video we are watching. We are even on vacation and each one is immersed on their phone. The fools are usNot the boxes.
And yes, as expected, this was also going to have an impact on intimate life. That device for connection has achieved the opposite: get away one of the others.
The side effect that is most known on the mobile is related to sperm may be known. According to a study by the University of Geneva, wearing the phone in the pants is synonymous with fertility problemssince the amount of sperm per millimeter decreases almost halfway.
Information that is still relevant to those who want to expand the family, but from the other side effects of the telephone, how Intimacy plummeted As the use of the device increases, we are not talking so much.
This hitch we carry (and I include myself) to the small screen means that we have less time for the rest of things, including quality moments with the couple. When you do more Scrollanswers whatsapps, you see videos or read this article, You are not talking, listening or looking at To the other person.
In addition to having in our hands an object that takes away moments, what we see through it are idyllic couples Carrying what seems like a perfect relationship, although we then discovered that the couple went through a crisis or someone maintained a double life: always smiling, with trips to distant, beautiful …
They say that comparisons are hateful, but with the thousands of impacts we receive up to date, comparisons are also inevitable. A lack of realism that we cannot prevent it from influencing or The self -esteem itself or in the perception of the relationship and translates into insecurities, lack of desire, the Validation search External instead of strengthening complicity as a couple, etc.
I write this article stopping every few minutes to check the Notifications From the mobile, answer a message or take a digital walk on Instagram to see if there is something interesting. Those interruptions, that constant mobile review not only happen in my work hours, also when it is the first thing that consulted when I wake up and The penultimate when I went to bed.
But when you get to the point that something interferes with your full attention and takes you out of the present, with that constant stimulation, it is to have the brain always distracted and hooked With the immediate reward. We have to get away a little so as not to lose the ability to enjoy calmer experiences: that of physical contact, the pleasure …
And therefore, less and less spontaneous among us and more connected to a technological extension, Emotional quality Today it is not only a conscious and active effort that we must do to get out of digital distractions, but a commitment to our partner.
The mobile out, than between love.
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