The maternity It is a moment that completely revolutionizes the way of understanding life. many women. The arrival of a new member to the family not only changes the way we have lived until now in order to cope with the baby carebut also in how we relate to the environment that surrounds us. This is why many mothers choose to impose some restrictions in your close circle before the imminent birth.
Preserve security and ensure child welfare or the girl are the main focuses of these women, who often end up having a hard time due to the demands of their family. It is the case of the X user (formerly Twitter) @Fivulousgirlwho a few days ago exposed some insecurities in front of his followers that had arisen as a result of several conversations with his mother regarding the baby arrival.
Before her daughter is born, the tweeter wanted to mark a series of restrictions on your familywith the intention of avoiding possible stress and problems that may affect the newborn girl. This is how she explained it to her own mother, who she asked to spread the word that she did not want visits to the hospital, nor people who would hold her in their arms or touch her without yet having the vaccines, nor kisses, nor photos for social networks. .
Yesterday I set limits for my mother regarding the arrival of the baby , which are the following:
-No hospital visits
-Do not hold her in your arms or touch her (she will not have vaccines) and my mother smokes a lot and carries her hands
-Do not kiss
-Do not take photos or post them on rss— C (@Fivulousgirl) October 25, 2024
He confronts his daughter over restrictions on the baby
A request that her mother did not like at all, who refused to do it: “Her first response was that it won’t be possible because everyone is looking forward to meeting her“What will I tell them then,” said the future mother. «Well, let them hold on, Let’s see if I have to screw myself so that everyone is comfortable», she responded, very angry about her mother’s attitude.
The grandmother then wanted to remind her that hospital visits are a tradition that goes back hundreds of years and that they must be respected, just as it happened when she was born: «He answers me in a bad way that I have no fucking idea.. My response: ‘Since I want to go forward and not backward, I have decided that we do not want visitors in the hospital. for my well-being and that of my newborn baby…’”, he explained in search of calming the atmosphere.
The user on social networks also referred to the issue of photos and touching of the little girl, another request that her mother refused to fulfill: “She told me that this was going to be difficult because Christmas was coming and that she would be very little. ‘Everyone will want to catch it and have a photo with her,’” her mother explained, something the surrogate mother refused to do. “I don’t care if it’s Christmas or if it was Easter, no!” she remembers now.
Her mother accused her of having “depression” because of the limits to preserve her daughter’s well-being
When asked if she could go to the hospital, the user again asked her not to and that was when she asked her for explanations: “She started telling me that ‘what are people going to say?’. Surely how strange I am… I told him that I didn’t care…”, pointed out the pregnant woman, who was immediately accused by her mother of “not being well.”
Visits, and he already started asking for explanations… telling me “what are people going to say”? Surely how strange I am… I told him that I didn’t care…
After setting the rest of the limits he told me:
MAKE YOU LOOK AT IT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT WELL, if you had given birth I would understand that you had— C (@Fivulousgirl) October 25, 2024
«If you had given birth I would understand if you had postpartum depressionbut I think you already have depression. Make yourself look at it because yours is not normal», her mother told her in response to the restrictions she had wanted to impose to preserve her daughter’s safety. «I told him that no depression […]that I am leaving things clear before giving birth and everyone wants to touch my balls,” explained the woman, who reproached her mother for little presence he had had in the lives of his grandchildrenbeyond the “Facebook photos”.
«What takes a negative? Well, either he attacks me and tells me that I’m the one doing it wrong, or he jumps over me and tries to do it by force…”, criticized the user. “What I want to know is Why does this woman think she has rights over my life?or why the f*** does he want to have a relationship with me if he doesn’t love me in the slightest, he only cares about winning. This is very toxic, I can’t take it anymore,” the pregnant woman concluded in this thread on X (formerly Twitter), where many women have come out to agree with her.
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