A girl, outraged by her friend’s sexual behavior, turned to relationship expert Colleen Nolan. Her letter and the advice she received publishes Mirror edition.
The girl said that her married best friend, who is raising two children, began an affair with the husband of another mutual friend. The friend admitted that she feels happy with her lover. “I would prefer not to know such secrets, but she said that she had no one else to talk to. If their partners find out about the infidelity, it will cause them a lot of pain. What should I tell her? – she asked.
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Nolan advised bringing her friend into a frank conversation and talking directly about her discomfort with the current situation. Also, according to a relationship expert, if an unfaithful wife is not sure that the marriage will survive, then she needs to openly discuss everything with her husband. In addition, if a woman leaves her husband, the lover may panic and return to his wife, the specialist believes.
“Friends tell us these things to relieve ourselves of the burden of guilt. Maybe she was hoping you’d tell her she’s not a terrible person or somehow encourage her to leave her husband and run away with this guy. Let her know that you don’t want to lose her friendship, but you don’t want to be involved in this situation anymore. First of all, she needs to make a decision about the future of her own marriage,” the expert advised.
Previously, Nolan gave advice to a 70-year-old man who had never been in a relationship. She assured that it is never too late to make new acquaintances and suggested how to do this.
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